If you are given a lavender plant, or even a bag of lavender flowers, use them in the following way to boost your sense of self-confidence and to glow with an etheral beauty that will haunt someone's imgination.
Take a sprig of lavender, in flower if possible, or otherwise just the flowering stem. If you have a bag of lavender buds, tiew a few together with a lavender colored ribbon.
Wave the beautiful plant across your forehead and inahale the rich perfume of the lavender fragrance. Imagine you can feel yourself exuding a strong lavender fragrance of your own.
Tie the flower sprig and the ribbon into your nightware or underclothes and sleep in the fragrance. Wish that you will exude a powerful beauty the next day. Then push the flowers and ribbon into your underclothes as you dress in the morning.
You will be radiantly lovely all day long, and when you have departed you will leave the scent of lavender in your wake.