This is the ideal spell if you are in a relationship in which an outside party is causuing uneeded trouble. Perhaps an overprotective frined, an overpossive child from a past relationship, overbearing in-laws etc..
You will need: 3 candles, colors chosen from the rainbow sepctrum to represent the 3 different parties.
Notch the candles in six equal places (to burn the candles down over six nights) and when they are alright say aloud the name of your "adversary" adding:
Let go your immaturity and fear
let (insert name of loved on) find love's security right here
Touch your heart as you say this and wish the other person well.
Repeat this over the next five days, and you will find his/her possiveness gradually lessons