Set-a-Spell

If you can't get your child to hold still and talk to you, go to the kitchen and being a project using your hands. Something like decorating holiday cookies. When your child comes to the kitche, whisper:

"If it be the Lady's (or the Lord's) will, talk to me, come set a spell. Ears to hear and lips to speak, some time with you is all I seek."

Then invite your child to help with the project. As he or she works match the rythem of your breathing with your childs and gradually slow it down and he or she will unconsiously match you.

When you are both relaxed, ask a simple question such as what kind of nose you would like on a snowman cookie. Gradually you may turn to more thoughtful questions such as "What is your favorite part of the holidays?" or "Hod you feel when you give someone a present?"

And you will have quality time with your child.